Is there actually such a thing as the P-spot?

When we say the P-Spot, what we mean is the prostate which a gland only found in men. It's about the size of a walnut located between the penis and the rectum, just beneath the bladder. It plays a role in the reproduction process by secreting seminal fluids that protect sperm, and the prostate muscles help with ejaculation. When you are aroused the prostate gland swells, and many men report that direct or indirect pressure can increase pleasure and create intense orgasms.

Why chose a prostate massager over a dildo?

Prostate massagers are designed to hit the spot, whereas dildos can be more multi purpose. Most prostate massagers have a slight curve which focuses specifically on stimulating the prostate and can make it easier to locate it. It's also important to remember that not all sex toys are designed for anal play, so it's always best if you are thinking about incorporating in toys that it's designed with anal play in mind. For example Lelo's Hugo or Bruno toys.

What are the benefits of a vibrating, silicone massager?

The vibrations can be used to stimulate the prostate either externally through anal play and vibrations on the perineum, or directly by internal use. Vibrating toys are a fairly reliable way of creating pleasurable experiences, and water-based lubricant with silicone can create a soft and gliding sensation. Silicone is skin safe, non-porous and importantly when it comes to anal play easy to clean.

What are the benefits of a metal massager?

Many people describe enjoying the more weighted sensation of a metal massager which can create a sense of pressure on the prostate. Again, metal is non-porous and easy to clean, but it also more temperature responsive. It's completely about personal preference in terms of what sensations or experience you are looking for on which type of anal toy you use.