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Let’s talk about sex

Let’s talk about sex
Sheeva Fallahi
Beauty Editor2 years ago
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Lost your va-va-voom during lockdown? We’re here to help. Whilst the pandemic saw many of us become a dab hand in the kitchen baking endless amounts of banana bread, it also spurred a lack of motivation in other areas of our homes, namely the bedroom. To help you out, we sat down with sexpert Kate Moyle who answers your most intimate questions as well as our sexual wellness edit to help you get your mojo back.

Kate Moyle, sex and relationship expert at LELO, answers your most intimate questions

What’s the G-Spot?

The G-Spot is a more sensitive area or 'zone' on the anterior wall of the vagina. It's not an anatomical structure, but a part of the clitoral network and can be effective in creating pleasure and helping  women achieve orgasm when stimulated.

Kate recommends:

Do I need to clean my sex toys?

Yes – toys should always be cleaned after use to ensure no bacteria from bodily fluids is left behind. Using unscented or antibacterial soap, like you would on your body, is sufficient to clean sex toys – just make sure that they are dried and stored afterwards. LELO Premium Cleaning Spray is paraben and alcohol free.

Kate recommends:

Since having my baby nearly a year ago, I don’t want to have sex. How do I get my libido back?

Work on spending time with your partner, focusing on touch and sensuality, without the pressure to have intercourse – this can trigger desire. It’s important to remember that sexual experiences don’t have to involve intercourse to be valid and pleasurable. Our massage candles are the perfect touch to get intimate again with your partner.

Meet the sex drivers

Smile Makers - The Tennis Pro

Ensure the ball is always in your court with The Tennis Pro from Smile Makers. Whether you want to partner up for a game of doubles or indulge in solo play, this sleek vibrator will deliver intense orgasms time and time again. Waterproof and made with super-safe silicone, the personal massager can either be used for clitoral stimulation or g-spot pleasure giving you the best of both worlds!

So Divine - Irreplaceable Clitoral Suction Stimulator

Experience irresistible pleasure time and time again with the Irreplaceable Clitoral Suction Stimulator from So Divine. With eleven different settings to explore from you can switch up the pace with ease, giving you the perfect experience to match your mood. The toy also uses a suction stimulator to deliver powerful pulsations for targeted pleasure, giving you an exciting and sensational way to reach orgasm.

So Divine - Thriller 2 in 1 Vibrating Ring

Step up your sex game with the Thriller 2 in 1 Vibrating Ring from So Divine. The two-in-one pleasure device comes with a stretchy hoop, allowing your partner to keep things going for longer than ever. It also has a removable bullet so you can both indulge in thrilling orgasms simultaneously.

Smile Makers - The Poet Air Pulse Clitoral Massager

Get more from your personal play with The Poet Air Pulse Clitoral Massager. Inspired by a kiss from nature, the true champion of female pleasure comes with 3 mouths in different sizes and 5 pulsation modes so you can find the perfect setting to suit you. Crafted from waterproof silicone and with added squeeze sensors, you’re able to adjust the toy’s intensity to your needs.

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Sheeva Fallahi
Beauty Editor
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As a beauty obsessive, I'm always trialling and testing new, exciting brands and product discoveries. With over 6 years' experience in beauty writing, including freelancing on the Net-A-Porter beauty desk, I have lots of useful beauty hacks, tips and tricks to share. I’m constantly seeking the latest hair products to make my curls ultra-bouncy and defined. The Cantu Coconut Curling Creme is my Holy Grail! My lipstick collection is always expanding – and my favourite lip product of the moment has to be a nude lipgloss for the ultimate everyday look.